iguana – Ex-pats in Mexico

Leslie is done with chemotherapy and her oncologist says she is “in remission.” That’s great news and we’re thrilled, but she still must do regular follow-ups with her surgeon and her oncologist at Cleveland Clinic in Florida for at least five years.

It’s exciting, but it seems there’s always a hitch. Leslie was scheduled for six doses of chemotherapy. At the end of the fourth dose, her oncologist suspended further treatment because her white blood cell count was too low, and was not recovering as quickly as expected. She will have more tests done soon to figure how why.

So she completed just four of the six doses. What does that mean? The doctor wasn’t very forthcoming on that question, simply noting that studies were done on the efficacy of three doses versus six, and six was found to be better. They needed studies to figure that out?

Anyway, now we can go to Nashville to enjoy Christmas with our daughter Stephanie and other family. But there’s still the question of whether or not to undergo radiation therapy as recommended by the Cleveland Clinic medical oncologist. While we’re in Nashville, Leslie will get a second opinion from oncologists at Vanderbilt Medical Center. If she decides to have the radiation it will be done at Vanderbilt and we will stay with Stephanie. If Leslie decides not to do the radiation we will head home to Ajijic as soon as we can book flights, probably the first week in January.

So our time in Florida is coming to a close and we’re hopeful that we’ll be back home soon. Florida is not our favorite place — weather (too humid), politics and insane drivers! It seems quite normal to weave in and out of traffic at high speeds on the freeways, sometimes with only inches to spare! And on city streets, the yellow light just means speed up — and if the light turns red, keep going or you might get rear-ended.

*And we have lots of iguanas, but they’re harmless and fun to watch. This big guy hangs out in our yard sometimes, but I’ve also seen him at nearby houses.*

On the plus side, we’ve been attending Christ Church United Methodist, just a five-minute drive from our temporary home. It’s a progressive church and we’ve enjoyed the services and meeting new friends. They’ve even asked us to light the Advent candle next Sunday. We also attended two concerts by the South Florida Symphony Orchestra, and may be able to do a third in early March because we’ll be here for the first of many follow-ups. Finally, there are lots of outstanding restaurants in greater Fort Lauderdale!

*This is a few minutes prior to the South Florida Symphony’s performance of Handel’s* Messiah — the Christmas portion plus the Hallelujah Chorus. *The audience was invited to sing along, and I did since I remember most of the bass part*. *The venue is The Parker, a beautiful concert hall that is part of the Broward Center for the Performing Arts.*

More information will be coming when decisions are made. Leslie and I hope everybody has a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

*Sometimes the iguanas get on the roof!*

We have arrived in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico, and the difference between this city and San Miguel de Allende – where we lived for the past six weeks – is amazing. It’s bigger. More than 300,000 in the metropolitan area, with lots more traffic. It’s a beach town at sea level, with high temps and moderate-to-high humidities. Even more Americans and Canadians.

Leslie and I were able to rent a modern three-bedroom condo in Marina Vallarta that backs up to a golf course. We have a small pool in a huge outdoor space with lots of tables and chairs. We’ve already had one visitor (see photo below)! And we’re seeing (and hearing) a number of birds I can’t easily identify. A sparrow-sized cutie with a reddish-pink head and chest, a larger bird with yellow on its chest and a streak from its eye backward along its head, and a woodpecker. And what I think may have been a goldfinch – not sure.

iguana-1440 — *Saw this small iguana joining us on our first day in the sun! I didn’t have a snack to offer, so he left!*

Hal, our Canadian landlord for the next two months, has a local administrator for his property. Rosanna picked us up at the airport on Wednesday and gave us some pointers on the marina area.

“It’s very safe here,” she said. “You can walk all around the area any time of day or night and you’ll be safe. Just one thing that you must never do: Never, ever, walk across the golf course at night.”

I was having a difficult time figuring out why. Would we be attacked by banditos lurking the links after hours? Bopped on the head by golf balls from blind golfers playing in the dark to avoid crowds? No and no.

“Crocodiles,” she said. “In the dark, you might step on one, and they don’t like it when you step on them.”

Right. What’s now a huge marina with lots of boats and tons of shops and restaurants, not to mention a plethora of condos, was once a swamp. There are still crocs here. It’s their habitat. So the danger is from wildlife, not from a wild life.

*In English:* Danger. Crocodiles. No Swimming.

Rosanna has been very helpful. On Friday, she took us on a tour of Vallarta, showing us a bit of the old city and pointing out areas we will need to explore in depth over the next two months. She also took us to a local mercado for fresh fruits and vegetables, as well as seafood and meat.

There’s also a Wal-Mart and a Costco, in addition to Mexican grocery stores very much like the one we patronized in San Miguel. More on cost of living next time, but at first glance it appears prices are slightly higher here than in San Miguel.

We attended our first Vallarta ex-pats dinner on our second day in town. A number of them live here in the marina area, including Mike and Sara, the group leaders. There’s a social event almost every week.

We also attended Sunday morning services at Iglesia Cristo del Mar, or Christ Church by the Sea. But…it’s not really by the sea, more like on a really busy street close to the airport! I dressed as I would for any summer Sunday at Grace United Methodist Church in Naperville. Boy, was I overdressed! Shorts and t-shirts are not out of place here. It’s another outpost of the Anglican Church in Mexico, like the one we attended in SMA, and we enjoyed the service in what is essentially a big open-air palapa. Nice people. We will be back.

We’re really excited that John and Anne Mixen, friends from Grace UMC, are right here in Vallarta this week for a well-deserved vacation. We’re meeting them this evening to watch the sunset and enjoy dinner and conversation.

I’ll leave you with the view from our patio toward the golf course. We planned to do things today but we’re still on the patio because of a comment I made during lunch, “This is just about perfect, and you don’t often get perfect.” Maybe more often here in Vallarta. We’ll let you know.

Hasta luego!

Looks great, doesn’t it? Behind these lounge chairs is a round table with four chairs where we’ve been having lunch almost every day. The only down side to this space is watching the golfers on what appears to be the 18th fairway. I don’t play golf, but know a lousy swing when I see one. Have to keep myself from yelling, “follow through, dude!” or “Hey, your stance is too wide!”

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UPDATE: Remission!

And now for something completely different!